If your life has been impacted by anxiety or fear...

You have the power to Feel Safe Again™

I know it's possible, because I've done it. At just 21 years old, I was shot with an assault rifle while I was on vacation. I struggled with the physical and emotional impact of the shooting for years, believing that my dreams of being a dancer had been destroyed. I didn't realize that the one night I thought had ruined my future would eventually lead me to recovery, discovery, and creating a life beyond my wildest dreams.  

It didn't happen overnight though.  

After suffering in silence for years, I went on a quest to transform my life - to finally face my biggest fears so I could start doing what I loved the most again, and to help others do the same. I started learning from other trauma survivors, thought-leaders, experts, and mentors, discovering the most effective tools and strategies for overcoming adversity. Like many of you, I faced frustration, overwhelm, and at times even thought about giving up. There were times when I was forced to relive my trauma and felt even more helpless in the aftermath. But I always found my way back, and over time was able to filter the best tools and strategies into one effective and proven program that empowers us to take our lives into our own hands. 

While I will always be a gun violence survivor, I can confidently say that I'm living my life with more joy and purpose than I was even before my shooting. Not only am I dancing again, but I get to teach dance with a passion and excitement that comes from the possibility of losing it all. I still remember the first day I woke up, years after my shooting, and realized, "I'm happy to be alive!" I've woken up every day since then feeling the same way. I'm so happy to be alive.

So I started to share my experience and strategies.

What I've learned over the years has completely transformed my life, and I've gotten to pay it forward helping people around the world through my public speaking, community resilience courses at schools and organizations across the country, countless media appearances, and online resources. I've shaped my international research into one simple, comprehensive Feel Safe Again™ Program to help you conquer your greatest fears and start living out your wildest dreams.

Here's what my clients are saying...

"I've opened up my doors to complete happiness"

"I survived domestic violence, and I worried about my children's safety every day. During the 6-week Feel Safe Again™ Program, I was able to identify fears that I had pushed down for over 15 years. I healed pain from my last abuse and actually discovered why I had certain fears and blocks. I’ve opened up my doors to complete happiness and have gotten highly noticed by my bosses at work. It's all a part of the set up for my raise. It's a wonderful feeling." 

* Linda M., Domestic Violence Survivor

"I am now living with a new sense of purpose"

"I learned about Nurjahan’s work after reading her article in Cosmopolitan Magazine. What stood out to me the most was her deep and intentional connection with the important work of a survivor’s recovery. Her program was just as impressive as I had imagined. Before the six-week program, I found it difficult to dream, to try, to dare again. During the program, I learned to trust myself and to validate and prioritize my hopes and dreams. Now, I feel strong enough to be bolder than I ever have in the face of my fears. I now know that whatever pain I feel does not have to last forever. There is inspiration, and a new life, on the other side of that fear… and I am now living with a new sense of purpose."

* Taylor B, Gun Violence Survivor  

*Pseudonyms are used to protect the identities of survivors

What might be possible for your life if nothing was holding you back?

Discover the life you've been waiting for inside Feel Safe Again™

Imagine if you could wake up one day and honestly say "I absolutely love my life!" What if you found yourself saying that day after day - if you could let go of pain from your past and feel more love, more happiness, and more freedom than you've ever felt before? That's why I built the Feel Safe Again™ 6-week program, where each day is focused on living fearlessly, and finding joy in your life again.

Once you join...

You'll get immediate access to our private community: 

No matter where you are or what's happening in your life, you can reach out for support. You don't have to wait for a therapy appointment or even daylight hours to get the help that you need. You have direct access to a community of individuals who understand what you're going through and are ready to support you in whatever way you need in the moment.

You'll receive weekly modules in your inbox:

Every Sunday for 6 weeks, you'll receive a new Feel Safe Again™ Program module. These tools and strategies will guide you step-by-step through your own personal recovery. They are all accessible online by audio or video for your convenience.

You'll receive incredible value from live coaching calls with me:

In these weekly sessions, you'll have opportunities to ask questions, work through anything that might be holding you back, and receive individualized coaching to help you move forward. Just by showing up to these calls, you'll start to experience massive shifts in your life.

It all starts with just one decision...

Imagine inspiring everyone around you with your strength and tenacity

Imagine being fully present with your loved ones, and enjoying every minute of it.

Imagine excelling at work, and being recognized by others as a leader in your office or field.

Imagine waking up every day feeling truly loved and held by those around you.

Imagine sending your kids off to school, knowing that they'll be able to thrive.

Imagine being in a healthy, trusting, and loving relationship, having others come to you for advice.

Imagine feeling free and whole in your body, doing the things you love the most.

Imagine being able to face challenges or triggers, knowing that you have the power to find peace and joy again.

All of these things are possible for you, and more. You can overcome adversity and face any fears that are stopping you from following your dreams, no matter what you've been through.

How it works

Throughout the program you'll experience 6 weeks of guided support. Before it even starts, you'll be taken through a short orientation to help you get settled and ready to dive in. By the time we officially begin, you'll have all of your questions answered and be ready to go! Once the program is over, we'll have a transition period to help you integrate and carry the changes you've made into your every day life.

The Schedule

Orientation: Starts right when you register

Program Goes Live: August 4

Modules 1-6: Sundays from August 4 - September 8

Live Coaching Calls: Wednesdays from August 7 - September 11

Program Ends: September 14

Transition Period: September 15 - 18

Even if you're going to be out of town or your schedule is busy, you can still participate! You'll have lifetime access to the program materials, so you can pick it up at any point on your own. You can revisit resources, tools, strategies, and your favorite "aha" moments whenever you need to, even after the program is finished.

What you get inside the Feel Safe Again™ Program

Private Community

As a member of our global community, you'll be held and supported by me and other survivors, no matter what time zone you're in or what's going on in your life. Whether you're at the park or at a restaurant, you can access this community whenever you need help or guidance. No matter what it is that you're going through, you'll have an entire community backing you up and cheering you on!

Weekly Modules

Each module you receive in your inbox will be filled with guidance, encouragement, and opportunities to apply these new tools and strategies to the new life you're creating. You'll be clearing fears and overcoming limitations day-by-day, stepping into a version of your life beyond your wildest dreams - filled with joy, excitement, and so much love.

Live Coaching Calls

Connect with me once a week on an intimate group coaching call to help you break through any blocks that may be preventing you from moving forward with your life. This is a priceless opportunity to get personalized guidance in every aspect of your life and work. You'll leave each call feeling renewed and rejuvenated, ready to take the next step or leap toward your dream life.

Lifetime Access

Once you've completed the program, you'll have life-time access to all of the tools and strategies you've learned along the way. You'll be able to revisit all of the tools and strategies that are carrying you into your dream life, and reapply them whenever you want or need. Your growth doesn't have to end here! This program will continue to help you clear any barriers you encounter moving forward.

The 6 Step Feel Safe Again™ Process

Module 1: August 4-10

Wake Up From the Nightmare

  • Uncover underlying triggers and emotions, and create a path for your life filled with love and joy
  • Discover what your life could be like free from pain or anguish
  • Identify and address the biggest fears that have been holding you back
  • Losen the grip of your past so you can break away from the cycle of reliving painful experiences

Module 2: August 11-17

Shift from Survivor's Guilt to Sincere Gratitude

  • Release yourself from cycles of negative emotions so you can ease into a life you'll love
  • Identify distractions or addictions and use simple tools and strategies to nip them in the bud
  • Clear out emotional clutter and guilt so you can move freely through your life
  • Optimize your environment and set every day up for success 

Module 3: August 18-24

Live Fearlessly

  • Discover the power to move seamlessly through life without fear
  • Master the Feel Safe Again™ mindset so you can find peace in any circumstance
  • Release residual anger and resentment
  • Find freedom and confidence in your body, mind, and spirit

Module 4: August 25-31

Manifest Your Mission

  • Discover the life you were meant to live and identify the impact you can make on the world
  • Manifest your biggest and most ambitious goals
  • Resolve your biggest blocks and barriers to living the life of your dreams
  • Create a crystal clear vision for how to move forward, and start on your dream path now

Module 5: September 1-7

Create Courageous Connections

  • Access the key to joy and abundance in your relationships
  • Uncover areas of your life that you want to improve, and establish new healthy habits
  • Create and maintain a holistically abundant lifestyle
  • Identify opportunities for increased love and connection in your life

Module 6: September 8-14

Finally Feel Happy to Be Alive Again

  • Step into a more confident, peaceful version of yourself, inspiring those around you
  • Discover how to make concrete life-decisions, eliminating doubt and second-guessing
  • Create a custom support system of individuals you can trust, who know exactly how to carry you into your dream life

What is the Feel Safe Again™ Program worth?

It's worth something different to each person. 

What would it be worth for you to...

  • Feel your world expand as you overcome your fears and move freely through life? Experience the joy of walking through your day without any worries or anxiety, excited for the next opportunity or adventure that awaits you.

  • Find true connection with those around you again without having to force social interactions? You don't have to carry the weight of your pain around with you anymore, so you can create lasting and loving relationships.

  • Be present and loving with your friends and family without feeling checked out or detached? You won't have to miss out on anymore important moments in their lives, and you'll be able to inspire them to overcome any adversity they've faced, leading by example.

I'm not sure what all of that would be worth to you, but my clients tell me it's priceless, and I whole-heartedly agree.

I lived in fear for years after my shooting.

You don't have to stumble around trying to find your way like I did. The answer is right here, and no matter how much time has passed, now is the best time to start living the life you've dreamed of.

The next Feel Safe Again™ Program will launch soon. Click the button below to receive updates as soon as it's available.

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Is Feel Safe Again™ right for you?

Frequently Thought Questions

I've tried other methods to recover and they didn't work. How do I know if I can trust this program?

That's a great question. So many of us get dragged through our hardest memories in an effort to recover, only to feel overwhelmed and depressed in the aftermath. I understand, I've been there. I created this program to make tools and guidance available to people like you and me so we can take our lives into our own hands. That means that you have complete control throughout the program, and you get to decide what you want to focus on and how deep you want to dive in. You'll be supported the entire time, and if you're not 100% satisfied, there's always the money-back guarantee that you can access up to 4 weeks into the program. My goal is to share all of my best strategies and resources with you, and to guide you step-by-step into the life of your dreams. You have to feel good about it in order for it to work for you. Your life is in your hands - I'm just giving you the resources and support to make the most of it!

Do I have to be a survivor in order to join?  

This program was designed to support people who have experienced the most extreme devastation, so it really works for anyone, no matter your life experiences. The first thing we teach is that it doesn't serve any of us to compare our pain. So whether you've experienced a life-altering trauma, or you just feel stuck and are looking for guidance to discover more joy in your life, you'll feel at home in this program.  

What if I'm already in therapy or in another program?  

That's wonderful! The more support you can get in your every day life, the better. This is a unique program that can stand-alone or compliment other services that are helping you in different ways. Feel Safe Again™ has a strong community-based support system, so you'll be connecting with like-minded individuals from around the world. You can access the resources from anywhere, 24 hours a day. This is a comprehensive program, tailor-made for individuals like you, who have faced adversity and are ready to overcome your fears and anxiety to step into the life you were meant to live. If you're already accessing support in other ways, fantastic! You can accelerate your progress by joining Feel Safe Again™, and see massive strides forward in just a few weeks.

When does the program start again?  

It officially kicks off on August 4th, but you'll start your orientation as soon as you register. Enroll right now so you can dive right in!

What if I don't have enough money?  

Money (or lack thereof) is a great excuse to stay comfortable instead of taking risks and investing in yourself. When you're truly ready to move forward, you'll find a way. Investing in yourself is a way of saying "I believe this is possible for me". It's really the first step toward your transformation. If you're not ready to take this leap, I understand. I waited 10 years after my shooting, letting fear and anxiety drag me through the best parts of life before I was ready to really make bold moves and seek out happiness again. You're welcome to continue accessing my free webinars and guides until you're ready. But if you feel that little voice inside you wondering, "What if this really is possible for me?" I encourage you to take the leap. It'll be the best gift you can give to yourself in 2019! 

Don't let fear hold you back any longer.

I'm here to tell you that you were meant for more.

I'm here to let you know that life can get better.

I'm here to tell you that in 2019 you can live the life you were meant to live.

Every dream starts with one step.

Are you ready?

Keep me updated when this program launches!

Questions? Email nboulden@shootingsurvivor.com for additional information.